Your private divorce companion

Make sense of your divorce, one clear answer at a time.

Aftervow reads your decree and answers your questions in plain English, puts every deadline on your calendar, and turns tense messages into calm replies. Quietly in your corner, whenever you need it.

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What Aftervow does

The overwhelming parts, made manageable

Divorce buries you in paperwork, deadlines, and hard conversations. Aftervow helps you carry it, one piece at a time.

The part nobody else does

Every deadline, straight onto your calendar

Aftervow reads your decree and finds the dates that matter, support payments, exchanges, insurance proof, filing deadlines, and adds them to your calendar with reminders. Nothing slips through the cracks.

Child support15th of each month
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Insurance proof dueAugust 20
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Summer schedule endsSeptember 1
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Ask your decree anything

Upload your decree or custody order and ask in plain English, "When are exchanges?" or "How is support calculated here?" Answers point back to your own document.

Reply without the heat

Paste a hostile message and get a calm, clear, ready-to-send reply. Stay firm and civil, even on the hard days. Copy it wherever you communicate.

Custody calendar

Set your parenting schedule, see who has the kids at a glance, and share a read-only view with your co-parent. Syncs to Google, Apple, and Outlook.

Track shared expenses

Log costs, split them, and see who owes what at a glance. Export a clean summary whenever you need one.

Keep a private record

Log important moments as they happen and keep your own notes. Export them to a clean file whenever you want to share with your attorney.

How it works

Set up in minutes

No forms, no legalese. Start with what you have.

Add your decree

Upload your divorce decree or custody order as a PDF, or just start asking questions and add it later.

Ask and organize

Ask anything about your order, pull deadlines onto your calendar, and draft calm replies in seconds.

Stay on top of it

Get reminders before every date, keep a private record, and open the app whenever a hard moment hits.

Private & discreet

Your story stays yours

This is one of the most sensitive things you will go through. Aftervow is built to respect that.

Yours alone

Nothing is shared with your co-parent unless you choose to share it, and even then only a read-only view.

Never sold, never ads

Your documents and notes are used only to help you. We do not sell your data or show you ads. Ever.

Built for this, not a chatbot

A purpose-built, private space for your situation, not a general chatbot where your decree becomes someone else's data.

Discreet by default

Emails and notifications are understated, so nothing sensitive is on display in a shared inbox.

Simple pricing

One plan. A fraction of the cost.

Full access for less than a coffee a month, far below what most divorce and co-parenting tools charge.

7 days free, no card
$4.99/month
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  • Ask questions about your own decree
  • Auto-extract deadlines to your calendar
  • Calm-reply helper for hard messages
  • Custody calendar, expenses, and private log
  • Guidance and exports whenever you need them
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Questions

Good to know

No. Aftervow is not a law firm and is not a substitute for a licensed attorney. It offers general information and helps you understand and organize your own documents. It does not give legal advice, and using it does not create an attorney-client relationship. For anything that affects your rights, talk to a family-law attorney in your state.

Understanding what your decree or custody order says, keeping track of the dates and obligations in it, writing calmer replies to difficult messages, managing a custody schedule and shared expenses, and keeping a private record of what happens. It is the companion you use alongside whatever else your case requires.

No. You can start right away with guidance and the reply helper, and upload your decree whenever you are ready. If you are still early in the process, Aftervow can help you prepare too.

Yes. Your documents and notes are used only to help you inside the app. We never sell your data or show ads, and nothing is shared with your co-parent unless you deliberately share a read-only view. See our Privacy Policy for details.

Your first 7 days are free with no card required. After that it is $4.99 per month, and you can cancel anytime from your account.

Yes. Aftervow works alongside whatever your court requires. Use it to understand your order and draft calm messages, then send or record them wherever you need to.

You do not have to hold all of this in your head

Let Aftervow carry the paperwork, the dates, and the hard messages, so you can focus on what matters.

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